We really wanted Oliver to get to be involved in something for Lucy. As I mentioned in my previous post, he did not come to her burial and memorial services. We decided that we would have him release a white balloon into the sky in honor of Lucy. It’s something that we plan to do every year. I think it will be great for us to have traditions that we can remember and honor her by, especially things that Oliver can be a part of.

Our neighbor and friend, Emily, was kind enough to come over and take some great photos of our little event. It was such a sweet moment for Oliver to get to do this. He was very excited and happy to send a balloon up to his baby sister in heaven. He held on to the string so tightly. When we gave him the okay he joyfully let it go to begin it’s flight. It was a clear day and we watched as the balloon floated up, up, up for what felt like forever before disappearing high in the bright, blue sky.

I really want Oliver to know about Lucy. I want him to understand that even though she isn’t living here with us, we love her just like we love him. She is just as much a part of the family as the rest of us. As he grows up I am eager to see his understanding of this grow. Although we are separated from her physically, Lucy firmly remains in our hearts.

(Photos by Emily Bailey)